I keep waking up in the middle of the night wondering why has this progressed so far. All I wanted was to be with my husband. And with the help of Nurse Ratshed and other VCHA actors I was prevented from doing so. I was seventy years old why did they do this.
When I started a petition in the courts in mid March 2014 within two weeks Randy was declared incompetent and he became a non-person. To become a non-person you only have to be is incompetent and the family is denied rights to decisions. The new decision maker controls even visitation. The new decision maker does not even have to tell you where your family member is. Families might be consulted, but so what. In Randy's case, the same physician who put an unauthorized DNR on my husband assessed him as being incapable. Randy had no rights nor I.
I did not have to do anything wrong. They just make you believe that you did and they document nonsense. This avenue is only a PR administrative function. You become upset and you do not venture further than blaming yourself. They are very good at it. The world of Nurse Ratsheds.
Maybe it might be easier to understand as per the Canadian Bill C-14 Euthanasia Bill. There is no requirement to allow family to know of the intended lethal injection. However, VCHA encourages family involvement so the family becomes complicit in the decision. It is PR, nothing else.
I came across this post from 2013.
The bastards at George Pearson Centre
Randy was admitted to Vancouver General Hospital late October 31 2013.
Tanu knew how sick Randy was on Thursday and she true to her word won't let me on
the ward so I could see him. What a demented person she is. Randy is
very fragile and he could die at any time.
Finally, at the end of tonight at VGH, Randy became responsive to me.
I was so afraid that he might die or he was on his way to be a vegetable
because of brain damage. A vegetable created by the neglect and
psychological mistreatment of him at George Pearson Centre.
I just do not understand Vancouver Coastal Health. They think they can
do what they like without regard for human decency. I do not know what
their agenda is but will someone please tell me.
Finally, Richard Singleton advised me that Randy is not
being detained against his will. After two weeks Randy is now free and
not only is he free I was told that he is also competent. So why did
they attack me on
October 21 2013 and prevent Randy from exiting George Pearson Centre.
What is the point of his freedom when he is with infection again and in
acute care.. And I still want to knew where do these infections keep
coming from.
Nothing is happening to anyone at George Pearson Centre except I am
still unjustly banned. VCH is using the argument that it is private
property and they do not need a reason to ban anyone from the property.
The only flaw in that argument is that the purpose of a hospital is for
the patients and their families. Patients and families triumph
trespass.
I did only what Randy wanted and acted in self
defence. Those $100,000 nurses that were traumatized and created the
drama had a few days off with pay at the taxpayers expense. No
apology just revenge by Tanu that no way I am going to be at Randy's
bedside if he is sick at George Pearson Centre. Like she threatened me
three years ago that she could arrange that I never see Randy again..
What has our medical system become or has it always been that way.
This should have been handled via due process in 2010 which is the
policy of
Vancouver Coastal Health when I asked for and even went to a board
meeting and asked for help and was assured of an independent
investigation of the conduct resulting in my banning which never
happened.. Why should they do due process because if
they did it would have to find in my favour.
Policies are made to satisfy the government but are rarely followed.
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