Days lost ... and David Bell

 These past few days have been a “lost.” On Monday I could not sleep as I was afraid I would not wake up as I had to be at court at 8:45 am Tuesday.  The case was adjourned/cancelled.  It took me until now to feel like I recovered from the lack of sleep.  I am receiving at least 200 emails a day, mostly informational types, things I am interested in but have no time to read them.  Call it “overload.”  I have been trying to get FOI information from VGH, but nothing is forthcoming. VCHA successfully dismissed my litigation, and now they are keeping back information, so I cannot understand what happened. These emails would surely tell me. No one else is interested; I just want to know.  What piqued my interest in this now history is that David Bell, the lawyer for VCHA, while in the litigation, did not complete a demand for discovery of documents, that is, give to me all the emails, etc., that VCHA has and which would still be in his possession. I mentioned this to the justice at the dismissal, and she did not deem it important enough to pursue.  She said that it was in all parties' interests for her to decide to dismiss the action.  Whose interest … Later, I asked the court registry if I could get a message to the justice for an explanation, the registry said "no."

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My post of February 9 2023

 I should not have said we were destroyed by the actions of VCHA and their hired help.  I am still alive but because of their unkind actions, I am still distracted. I cannot find pleasure in anything. Professionals are still disappointing me. You would think as time passed things would have been forgotten but instead they are becoming more intensified.  I find myself in periods with tears each day.  I am forced to stay home. The regret will not go away.

I can't stop thinking

 I can't stop thinking back to when Randy had his accident.  Although it has been many years, it was as it was yesterday.  I can see and feel what I was going through.  The trauma of it all.  The accident was an accident but what I had to go through with VCH was no accident.  From the moment I found out that VCH secretly moved Randy from VGH to GPC, I was targeted. I can still hear the head nurse, Tanu, saying that she had the power to make sure that I never see my husband again, not even on his deathbed. I did not know why she would say that.  And her "power" did happen.  I was also told that I was not allowed to speak to anyone unless I was spoken to first.  I taught she was crazy. I did not argue with her, I just ignored her. She also told me that I could not touch my husband; not even hold his hand or touch his bed. What was Randy thinking!  He was disabled and could not talk.  What a terrible person she was.  At that time I did not think too much about her.  Later I concluded she was a Nurse Ratchet. She was so sure of herself that she did not even notice that I had a friend "witness" with me at that time who heard all this and told me later that she could not believe Tanu would say what she said.  I did not take much note as it was just talk.  I had no belief at that time that this woman would eventually destroy my life and that of my husband's.