To tell the truth, what does that mean.

 I am getting extremely tired of talk of lawyers, the talk is "double -talk" or "half-truths."  

The lawyer for my sister was told not to say anything as the lawyer did not want my sister to be open to discovery.  What discovery. Under fiduciary law she had to volunteer to tell the whole truth, not wait for a court order to force her to tell the truth. What truth.  That she was spending monies that were for the care of my disabled brother for her horse's vet bills.   My sister was an estate administrator appointed by stealth, designed by her lawyer. I was told lawyers do it all the time, "jumping the gun." Everyone knew I was opposing my sister's appointment to be administrator and Candace choose to overlook that and not tell the court. My sister hasn't been able to talk for two years now because her lawyer told her not to. 

 It sounds like my ex-husband telling me that his lawyer told him to sue me for alimony, although he was living with a rich woman, and at that time, I was working at a job that paid $1.00 over minimum wage.  

I do not know why I am ranting on about nonsense.  It might be because a friend of mine died a few days ago and I have not been able to get any official information about his death as I am not next of kin.  As far as I know he does not have any next of kin. All this privacy we are faced with is driving me crazy.  Someone dies and it is a secret.  After death you have no privacy.  

Blood is thicker than water.

 I keep thinking about things that I have forgotten that should have never been forgiven.  It is called abuse by design.  Battered Woman Syndrome.  No one can escape their past.  

Why WESA needs reforming.

From the internet:  British Columbia's robust system was designed under WESA to be simple, family-driven, and minimally adversarial.  In practice,it has become one of the most expensive, opaque, and least accountable probate environments in Canada.  The result is a system where fiduciary abuse can occur quietly, beneficiaries struggle to obtain basic information, and families face prohibitive barriers when trying to remove or challenge an administrator.  

In other words, an unqualified person can by stealth become an administrator, and that person can be protected by a lawyer who can frame the law to defraud beneficiaries of their full inheritance.