From Stephanie Willett

 This is an email I just got Stephanie.  She is my niece.  Nothing is true in her email. And she is a social worker.  If she writes this stuff, she should not be in that position with vulnerable people. I have never spoken to that woman in 40 years.  

You have a long history with numerous court involvements going back decades and have dragged at least 3 estates into court and yet you state surprise by the cost? You told Ron you would drag this out to bankrupt the estate and now you claim surprise that your shenanigans have wasted at least 100,000$ of your baby brothers money in legal fees? You've dragged this on for over 2 years. You knew what you were doing, and what the cost would be, financially and otherwise. Your attempt to portray surprise isnt fooling anyone. 

This in answer to this email I sent to Candace Cates, lawyer for the administrator of the estate.  Cates is very good at legal procedural ambush and this is how I got set-up to coverup their unethical behavior.  

I have been under so much stress, I forget/confuse things.

You must have sent me the bill of costs but when I went back in my computer I could not find the email with the bill of costs.

I do not want service by email any more.  You send it by letter and also a copy by email.  I cannot stand the stress of everything coming down on me.

Making me responsible if the internet goes down, is ridiculous. As there is no excuse if you get email served.

Officially, I want everything done by mail and a copy to me by email but I cannot trust email as it is not reliable.  

I was told that email service is not proper.  It has to be acknowledged.  But then I might be wrong and I do not have time to check on it.

You are good, you and Heather, and Leah.  All of you coming down on me when you knew that it would be impossible to be prepared for the

hearing on November 7 2025. And you presented evidence that was not evidence. A bunch of emails I sent to you is not evidence.  The evidence has to be

by an affidavit that I did, not some clerk, that works in the office of the PGT.  I asked for an adjournment on November 7 2025 and you would not

agree.  Why would you not agree.  I was unprepared because of the time lines imposed by you.  

You and Heather moved the date of my hearing for standing to November 7 2025 without my consent.  You just jump the gun and then it is my problem.

What did you do tell the judge I agreed.  Or did the judge just assumed I agreed.  What bitches you are. What are you going to do now run off to the

judge because I called you a bitch...

This all started when I told you to fuck off when you threatened to litigate against me in May 2023. You will litigate over a paper clip as long as you know

there is $2,000,000 sitting there as you knew you could manipulate Jenny.   We have to protect the estate from Audrey.  Who is protecting the Estate from

you.  And I still do not know what I did that it is going to cost me $110,000  Maybe you can tell me. I suggest that you do tell me.  

I keep thinking about how you and Leah manufactured those affidavits for the February 7 2025 hearing.  Making Jenny and Ron believe they were harmless,

just to push the probate quicker.  Did you and Leah tell the beneficiaries that the cost of that little harmless push has cost me $25,000.  When I first read

the affidavits I thought them stupid.  Who would take them serious.  I thought at that time you and Leah were padding your accounts.  No the 

courts seriously considered them.  And you knew the courts work as though they were in the medieval ages.  Woke. Woke. Woke.

That $25,000 is only for Jenny, and I am expecting a like bill from Leah.  The best I can tell I owe the estate $110,000.  

Like I said to you and continue to say no matter how dysfunctional our family is blood is still thicker than water.  None of the beneficiaries would have 

allowed this to happen if they knew what the costs would be. Surprise. Surprise.  Surprise.  And you kept it from them, like you are keeping your fees to date so far from them.

This was a fucking simple estate.  Three items and you made it a monster.  So what was the point.  That I said Jenny should not be the administrator.  That is a fact.

It did not have to cost me $110,000.  Oh I know what it is you are protecting the PGT from my allegations that they mismanaged estate funds.  They have such a stellar

reputation, they can be corrupt and no one can say anything against them.  Because it will cost you hundreds of thousands of dollars and the PGT has the devoted

support of the legal community.  They did the same thing with me when my husband was dying.  In ten days they came into our lives to make sure that I did not

spend his money foolishly.  What a joke the money was in a trust account in the name of his lawyer.  I never touched any of it.  I was too busy caring for my

husband but the PGT had to intervene.  They took everything and a week later my husband died. I found out later that his lawyer wanted to be the committee of estate

for my husband.  That reminds me I have to expose him for what he did.  

The Tragedy

 What I witnessed on November 7 2025 was the abandonment of fiduciary law.  The deconstructing  has been going on for years. The absurdity of it.  The harm of it.  I am not smart and there is nothing I can do.  I quiver with tears.

   

Legal abuse.

 Doesn't is as it appears.  And wht I am experiencing in my view is horror.  I have been driven beyond rage to a road of isolation.  No one can help and those that can won't.  My state of mind changes by the hour.  With that I cannot sleep or focus as I am being manipulated by lawyers ... everything is my fault and the law is there where they are expected to use discretion but will not.  They use the rules of court to protect their clients. The solution is walk away.  But things have escalated beyond that easy solution.  Am I to walk away in terror, and if I survive, try to forget a holocaust inflicted upon me by bad advice given to my siblings' lawyers?   Win by all costs. 

I can't concentrate, I can't focus, I am always in tears of helplessness.  Each day meets a new terror that I have to deal with.  Terror of the unknown.  

I remember my sister phoning me saying for me to be careful that the lawyers (hers) and my brother's lawyer was out to get me.  I assured her not to worry that I did nothing for them to get me.  This was in reference to I filing a P1, being a form where I applied to be the administrator of my late brother's estate.  What can they do as I filed the P1 and I was safe.  If a lawyer wanted to dispute my P1 they would have to let me know, like serve me with paperwork.  This did not happen and eight months later my sister who warned me to be careful told me that she was forced to be the administrator as she could not stand the pressure any more.  After that conversation she never talked to me again.  If she could not handle the stress of tossing me under a bus how could she handle the stress of being an administrator.  I am sure that her lawyer convinced her that she would handle everything and Jenny would not have any stress. This was reinforced by Jenny never communicating me later when I wanted to understand what and why this was happening.  I was accused by her lawyer that Jenny was not going to answer any of my emails because they were "unkind."  I asked for a copy of the unkind emails, nothing came back.  After that I suspect that Jenny never read any of my emails, how would I know.  You press SEND but there is no way to know if you have been put on a do not answer list. My sister suffers from PTSD and one way that people cope with life is avoidance. Likewise, Jenny would just sign any thing that was put in front of her.  She would trust her lawyer.  

Should Legal Coaching be allowed in fudiciary cases.

Costs assessed for reprehensible behavior by the court

 I cannot believe it but I have been assessed costs by the court for reprehensible behavior.  I am not sure what I did but it doesn't seem to make a difference.  It is just a fleeting moment in the victory for the lawyers for the trustees in my brother's estate.  I can only say I experienced terrible cruelty by these actors. No one told me what wrong I did but I apparently did something. I asked one of the lawyers and she would not tell me.  She said when the oral reasons for judgment are done which might take weeks I would get a copy and if I do not understand them then I can get a lawyer.  Their behavior is reprehensible as they looted my brother's estate and that is obvious but that was no crime. Crimes belong in criminal law but not in fudiciary law, they are just mismanagement of estate assets, depleting them.  

Schadenfreude