🕊️ A Family Torn Apart (AI)
Mary was 78 and frail, but she loved her home. Her daughter had been living with her, helping with meals, shopping, and company. A neighbour, uneasy about a loud argument, reported “possible abuse” to authorities. Without a thorough investigation, the Public Guardian and Trustee stepped in.
On “protective” grounds, Mary was moved into a care facility. Her daughter was told she could no longer live with her mother — and visits were restricted. The allegation was never proven. No judge heard evidence. No one asked Mary what she wanted.
The PGT said it was acting “in Mary’s best interests.” But the result was devastating: Mary lost her home, her companion, and her voice in the decision. The daughter was stigmatized as unfit, with no chance to clear her name.
This is how families are destroyed not by malice, but by flimsy evidence and unchecked power. The PGT calls it protection. To those living it, it feels like betrayal.
Yes, it does happen. Family members are bullied and they cave. Everyone consents to silence/privacy. The wrong goes unnoticed.
We're Still Here, a report by the BC Human Rights Commissioner. April 2025.
No Longer YourDecision. A report in 2013 by the BC Omburdsperson.
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